Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Chrissy & Vicki

Chrissy- 12- 7th grade- best friend's sister=]


1.) What's the difference between a friend and an acquaintance?

~ friend- someone you tell your secrets to

~acquaintance- someone you just say hi to in the hallway


2.) What happens when you and your friend have a fight? Is that person still your friend? How do you try to resolve the problem that caused the fight?

~don't talk for a while

~someone always appologizes first

~once someone appologizes, everything is all better

~never lost a friend in a fight- right now in a week long fight


3.) List the names of the people in your group of friends. Who do you typically hang out with after school? Whom do you typically hang out with on weekends? Whom do you typically invite to your parties?


~Jackie

~Emily

~Amanda

~Ryan


After school- Dance friends ( acquaintances)

Weekends- schools friends (real friends)

Invite to parties-

~boys and girls

~more girls

~only school friends


4.) Who is the most popular person in your group? What is that person like? Why do you think that person is popular?


~Morgan Taylor

~energetic, hyper, outgoing, makes friends easily, pretty

~has a boyfriend




Vicki-19-Freshman at University at Buffalo-<3


1. a friend is someone you hang out with and talk to and what not and an acquaintance is more of someone that you just see somewhere..often school that youre nice to and say hi to and stuff but do not really see them outside of school.


2. it all depends on the friendship before the fight started. really good friends often are able to work through their problems because theyve been through so much together already and they just cant throw away all their memories. but if its something that has been leading up to a huge blowout, or if you just arent that good of friends and the friendship wouldnt really phase you if it didnt exist, then the person may not be your friend anymore, depending on what happened. its all circumstantial. you cant really answer this question without having a specific relationship and a specific type of problem. In resolving an issue, communication is key. jumping to conclusions and not listening to the other persons side is really what prlongs and make a fight so much worse. but not only do you need to listen to the person, you need to take their points and reasons into consideration and see it from their perspective, and they must do the same unto you, or else nothing will ever be solved, and the problem could become worse then it initially was.


3.i dont even know how i would go about answering this question. i really never had a solid group of friends, but i would have to say that throughout high school, my closest friends were danielle, emily, caitlin, sam and tina. but then i would also have people i would see primarily in school, then people, like the people listed above i would hang out with on weekends and invite to parties and what not. but i feel like the people i would invite to parties is a smathering of everyone rather than a set group of people. i would invite more people to a party then i would normally hang out with one on one


4. i feel that caitlin would have been the most "popular" but not in the traditional way. i feel like caitlin could relate and get along with most people. shes very laid back and cool and is awesome to hang out with and a lot of people see that, and with that, she often has plans to do things with people and talks to everyone about anything




Vicki is amazing for doing this for me. I'm not surprised. Because she's great<3

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